Jim,
Sad to hear of your loss. My condolences to you and your family. God bless you all. Your wife sounds lovely. I'm going to give mine a hug, just for accompanying me in all my pursuits.
Uncomfortable? With all the drilling, poking, operating and testing you have been through? You must be a very strong man.
Buried my parents (mother w/ fathers ashes) 2 weeks ago. Sounds like its been a tough spring for many here. I feel old, but I get the feeling I am in the young half of the group (chronologically if not physiologically.)
Keep strong.
Larry